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Once you identify your pattern of chasing emotionally unavailable men, consciously begin to focus more on what traits you want in a man, instead of focusing on what traits you do not want.You likely want to date someone who is dependable, kind and emotionally stable, notes psychologist, author and relationship expert Seth Meyers in the e Harmony article, "Mr.If you continue to make the same mistakes, it's because you haven't learned from them, notes Meyers.Identify some of the mistakes you made when you ended up with a man who was not emotionally available in the past.You need to admit to yourself that you have a negative dating pattern and want to change it.Be aware of men who come from situations that tend to breed emotionally unavailable people.The scary thing about emotionally unavailable people is how easy it is to be duped by them, and how they don’t always reveal their true colors until you’re already attached.I’ve started to notice the warning signs and steer my direction far away from them in recent years, but if there’s anything I’ve taken away from dating men who couldn’t give me the love and respect I deserved in return, it’s how to put myself first.
They have poured out their hearts and their souls or spoken of their leading ladies in the highest of terms.
Avoiding emotionally unavailable men can save you much heartache and frustration in your love life.
If you find that you consistently date emotionally unavailable men and cannot seem to get away from them, you may have to look at yourself to see why you are attracting or pursuing men who are not able to fully commit themselves to you.
Nice in theory –but the reality couldn’t have been further from the truth.
However, the men I have met while I’ve been here the last six months have had a common theme. Either literally –because they’ve had girlfriends or wives, or emotionally -because they just got out of a serious relationship or because they’re just not looking for a special someone at this time.Since I moved to the city, I haven’t exactly had the best luck in dating. I had this unrealistic notion that once I moved to my dream location, my dream guy would show up too. Yeah –I’ll admit that (it is after all, what recovery is about).